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Planning Your Wedding
Monday March 9, 2009
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 2:15PM PST on March 9, 2009
Wedding Shower 101 As the hostess, you are basically planning a party that anticipates an even bigger party. And the guest of honor is someone who is close to you. So you'll want to make every effort to make the bride or the couple happy. Take a moment to review the following basic information regarding how to plan a wedding shower. Hostess(es) Traditionally, the honor attendant serves as shower hostess. She can request help from members of the wedding party. Co-workers, female relatives of the bride or the groom, can throw additional showers. Usually the mothers of the bride and groom do not serve as hostesses, but they may help out behind the scenes. Other close friends who are not in the wedding party may throw a shower. This customs is especially prevalent for small wedding parties. Budget How much do you want to spend on the shower? Who is contributing? First, find out how much money you have to work with, then pick a location and theme. Date/Time Showers are traditionally held from six months before the wedding to a week before. Prior to picking a date and time, decide where you want to hold the shower since location availability will be a factor. Try to pick a day and time most of the guests will have open. This usually means weekend afternoons. However, work-day showers can be held during lunch hour or immediately after work. Evening get-togethers are also an option. Surprise (?) Planning a surprise shower can be challenging but well worth the look of shock on the bride's countenance or on the faces of the couple when they enter the room. Make this decision early, since it will affect how you proceed with the details. The guest list If the bride knows about the shower, ask her to help with the guest list. If you want it to be a surprise, consult with her mom, her sister or the groom (if it's not a couples shower). Make sure friends and family of the bride and groom are invited, as well as the wedding party. Everyone invited to the shower also should be on the wedding guest list. Invitations Invitations can be formal or casual, matching the theme of the festivities. They can be printed or fill-in-the-blank. Send them out four to six weeks before the day to guarantee each guest gets the invitation in time to mark the shower on his or her calendar. Request an RSVP by two weeks before the party. Gifts Make sure the bride and groom have registered before the shower. Include information on where guests can purchase gifts along with the invitations.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 2:14PM PST on March 9, 2009
Determining Your Budget Before you open the checkbook or lay down that credit card, take time to review the costs associated with getting married. Ask friends or family members who have recently gotten married to advise you on setting an overall budget and how to allocate a portion of that budget to each component. In general, the more simple and casual the wedding, the less expensive it will be. If you want a more formal and elaborate event, you'll probably need to work with a bigger budget. In this guide, you'll find options for every price range. See our Wedding Planner Budget Checklist - we have organized the items budgeted according to whom traditionally pays for them. Today, many couples split the costs with their families or pay for the entire affair themselves. You can also choose to not include items you find unnecessary. Whoever picks up the bill, it is important to stay as close to budget as possible. A happily married couple is one that is not paying wedding bills until their 10th anniversary!
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Shower Locations and Themes Like the wedding itself, a wedding shower can be as casual or as formal as the planners choose. A homegrown affair. For a more intimate, casual shower, consider holding one at your home. Before you volunteer your house, be certain you have ample room for the guests. Will there be enough seating? Bathrooms? Refrigerator space for the food that will be served? At a shower, you want everyone to be able to enjoy themselves. Close quarters are not enjoyable. A backyard barbeque. On a warm afternoon or evening, consider having the shower outside, where there is room to mingle. Hang outdoor lights, serve tropical drinks and have someone at the grill. Again, make sure you can accommodate the number of guests you're inviting. Make sure there's enough seating and bathrooms. And have a back-up plan in case of inclement weather. Afternoon tea. There are many area tearooms that provide a Victorian atmosphere. You can go the whole nine yards and ask guests to dress the part with gloves and hats. Or go for casual elegance. Either way, a happy bride-to-be, tasty tea and crust-less sandwiches add up to a party made in heaven. Time for wine. One of the Evening cocktails. An evening affair at a fashionable restaurant or bar could be an elegant alternative for a shower. Sporting news. If the bride and groom are big sports fans, consider renting a suite at Busch Stadium, the Edward Jones Dome or A bunch for brunch. Consider having a Sunday brunch either at a restaurant or at home. Honeymoon preview. Does the couple know where they're honeymooning? If they're heading for Spa day. Gather the girls for a day of pampering. Some spas have packages available that include a variety of services, from manicures and pedicures to facials and massages. The staff should provide a private room where you can do the gift exchange and serve a healthy, spa-worthy meal.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 2:12PM PST on March 9, 2009
Formulating the Guest List Everyone looks forward to attending a wedding. It's an opportunity for family and friends to share the happiness that surrounds two people who are in love. However, selecting which family and friends will witness that happiness can sometimes lead to tension. Although it may be impossible to invite everyone you, your fiancé and both sets of parents want to include, you can devise your invitee list in a logical way. As you begin to formulate your guest list, consider the following factors: How many people can the facilities hold? Both the ceremony site and reception location can legally accommodate only a specific number of people. If you want small, intimate venues, you are going to need a small, intimate guest list. If including more people is important to you, find venues that can hold everyone comfortably. What's for dinner (and how much is it)? The highest ticket item in a wedding is usually the reception meal. Catering fees are based on a per-person basis. Depending on the number of courses, the quality of liquor at your bar and the dining style, your price can range from $10 to $200 per person. The more people you invite, the bigger the chunk of your overall wedding budget. Who's paying the bills? It is only right that the individuals paying the bills help determine how many people to invite. If the bride and groom are paying, they may decide to split the total number of guests between the two families or by three: the bride's parents, the groom's parents and the couple. If the bride's parents are paying, take their wishes into account and compromise. Adding a few extra guests to a large wedding won't make a big difference. However, when you're trying to keep things as small and intimate as possible, each person adds up. You may want to start the guest list process by making a "dream team" list of wedding guests, including each and every person the parents and the couple want to invite. Then look to the venues' maximum capacity, your budget, and whoever is signing the checks, to help determine which guests make the cut.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 2:11PM PST on March 9, 2009
Wedding Registry - Basics and New Ideas A wedding registry is supposed to make your life easier but can sometimes lead to panic. Consider the following information when you begin to think about registering for gifts. Getting Started: Don't just run to any store with a registry and start scanning anything you can get your hands on. Before you even approach the store, consider your tastes. Are you into the clean lines and sleek simplicity of contemporary designs in a neutral color palette? Or do you prefer the classic formality of ornate fabrics, elegant window treatments and rich colors? Perhaps the rustic romance of floral patterns, wood furniture and crafty dècor suits you best. Think about not only what you like right now, but also what you think you may prefer in the future. Picking Stores: - Many retailers provide bridal registry services. The question is which ones you should pick. Consider the following factors when selecting stores at which to register: - Does the store have a wide selection? Does it have a lot of merchandise that appeals to your sense of style? What brands does the retailer carry? - Does the store provide shipping services? Will it have gifts sent to a designated address? How much will shipping cost the person buying the gift? - Is it conveniently located for the majority of your guests to utilize? Will it be easy for guests to access your registry? Is everything labeled for ease of purchase? Can guests order over the phone or online? - How does the store keep track of the items purchased from and remaining on your registry to help prevent gift duplication? How often is the list updated?
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 2:10PM PST on March 9, 2009
Wedding Invitations - Everything You Need to Know Since your wedding invitation is the first thing your guests see in conjunction with your wedding, they should be selected and composed with care. Invitation components: Your wedding invitation comprises more than just a request to attend. There are specific elements that guests should receive within your invitation. The invitation itself invites guests to attend your marriage by listing your wedding date, time and location. It can include your parents' names or just your own. It can be worded formally or informally. Take a look at different wording styles, or ask your invitation salesperson to help you determine the wording most appropriate for you. The reception card lists the time and location of your reception. The response card gives guests the opportunity to RSVP for your wedding - accept or decline. The response cards are vital, since they provide an approximate guest count for the reception. Don't forget to list a "respond by" date approximately two weeks before your final head count is due to the reception facility and/or caterer. The response envelope should be stamped and pre-printed with the name and address of the individual(s) receiving the responses. Maps with directions to the ceremony location and reception site should be included. You can have them printed or just run off informal copies. However, make sure the maps are clear - some reproduce poorly and are then hard to follow. Inner envelopes contain all the components of the wedding invitation. The inner envelopes are placed within the outer envelopes, which are addressed and stamped for mailing. Depending on the circumstances of your wedding, you may also want to include the following enclosures: Travel and accommodation information if you're inviting guests who are from out of town. A schedule if the events of your wedding are spread out over a long weekend. When to order: Order your invitations, envelopes, as well as reception and response cards at least four months before your wedding to ensure that you will be able to stuff and address them in time for mailing. Invitations should arrive in guests' hands approximately six weeks before your wedding day. Where to get your invitations: There are many options for ordering wedding invitations. Here are a few standards and some ideas you may not have considered: - Large stationary chains have great selections of catalogs to browse through where you can find samples of many types of invitations. You can see first-hand the style that suits you best. Large stores work with professional printers and printing companies. - An online stationary site or mail-order catalog allows you the convenience of invitation shopping from the comfort of home. You can find and select your invitation, submit the wording and information, and place your order without leaving home. With the hectic pace that comes with planning your wedding, it may be a relief to shop for invitations whenever you have a free moment. But, as when you order anything online or from catalogs, you may end up with invitations different than you expected since you can't see or touch a sample. Looks can definitely be deceiving, so order carefully. - A small, local stationary shop/printer may have a smaller selection of invitations from which to choose, but they may provide exceptional service. They may have more options on the printing and collating side, such as multiple ink colors, as well as assembly and stuffing of the invitations and envelopes. This service can be especially handy if you have a large guest list and/or an invitation with a decorative element like ribbons that need to be tied. However, this type service will add to your expenses. And smaller shops may need more time to fill your order. - Enlist a graphic designer whose work you are familiar with and who is capable of designing an invitation for you. That way your invitation is sure to be personal and unique. Keep in mind, you will need to find a printer, although the graphic designer may be able to recommend one. Since this process takes some time, start early. - Log on to your computer and make your own invitation. There are many programs with different borders, fonts and colors you can use in your design. Use a good paper stock and go to a reputable printer. Although this option is personal and economical, it also may be the most labor intensive for you. Printing styles: There are various types of printing processes available for invitations. Pick the style you like best and don't forget to make sure it fits within your budget. - Engraving, the most formal, has slightly raised letters resulting from the paper being pressed on a metal plate. This traditional printing process is the most expensive. - Thermography combines ink with powder to create raised letters on paper. Since there are no plates involved, the process is quicker - and less expensive - than engraved invitations. - Offset printing is a standard printing process where the ink lies flat on the paper. If you're looking for a more casual option, offset may be the way to go.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 2:10PM PST on March 9, 2009
Getting Your Marriage License Even though it's only a piece of paper, the marriage license is a vital factor on your wedding day. You're not really married without one! While the specifics regarding the laws of marriage and licenses vary from state to state, here is some basic information on getting your marriage license. Where should you apply? This will usually be the city hall, the city or town clerk's office or in some cities, the Marriage Office Bureau. Call ahead to make sure you're going to the correct address. Make sure you ask what hours the office is open. When should you apply? Your marriage license has a period of validity. Make sure you don't apply too early or too late. The license may be valid from the time when it is received until up to 60 days after it is received. Or you may have to wait several days after you've applied. Will you need blood tests? These aren't necessary in every state. However, make sure you check in plenty of time. If a blood test is required, you'll need to go to your physician or a clinic and requests a standard, pre-wedding blood test. Find out how long it will take to get the results and for how long the results are valid. How much is the fee? Ask in advance how much it will cost and in what form the payment is accepted. Some offices only accept cash, so make sure you have it with you. Others may accept personal checks or credit cards. What documents will you need? Again, check with the office from which you will receive your marriage license to find out exactly what paperwork is required. You probably will need a combination of the following documents: - Birth certificate - Proof of citizenship - Government-issued identification (i.e., driver's license, passport, military I.D.) - Parental consent (if under age) - Divorce decree (if applicable)
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 2:09PM PST on March 9, 2009
Picking Your Wedding Theme Most people don't see a need for a wedding theme. Of course, the theme for any wedding is "marriage." However, when all the little planning details start to come together, you should have some cohesion to everything. With so many choices to make, having a theme helps to guide you to simple elegance. But beware, theme incorporation should be subtle. Too obvious theme elements can take away from the real reason for your special day and make the festivities feel like a theme party. The season during which you hold your wedding can provide many cues for theme and color. Try a few of these seasonal suggestions to help make your wedding unique and fun. Spring: What leaps to mind when you hear "spring wedding?" Flowers! Of course, every wedding has flowers. When flowers are your theme, you can incorporate them not only in dècor, but in other decorative elements as well. - Use a subtly flowered fabric for your bridesmaids' dresses. - Give your guests flowery favors. Seeds for their gardens in decorative pots are one way to do that. Bud vases are another. - Incorporate fresh flowers in your cake design or have your baker craft them out of fondant. - Use pressed flower stationary for invitations and programs. You'll find these little lovelies at many invitation providers. - Ask your caterer to include flowers in your menu - edible flowers look lovely in salads and as garnish for your main course. - Colors for spring often include muted pastels, such as buttercup yellow, lilac, pale blue, carnation pink and sage green. These colors can be found in many of the season's flowers. Summer: When it's hot outside, choose a sunny theme that tells guests that your wedding is the cool place to be? A tropical paradise! A fuchsia wedding dress would be inappropriate, but putting a taste of the tropics in the details can go a long way. - Feature faux "Tiki" torches as part of the reception lighting scheme. - Serve fruity drinks with little umbrellas at the bar, and have sangria available in carafes at the tables. - Make dried fruits and nuts available for snacking. - Include tropical flowers in bouquets and boutonnieres, and flowered leis as part of the table design. - Incorporate some reggae music into your playlist. - Hot colors for those hot summer nights include electric blue, royal purple, magenta, lime green and chili-pepper red. While these colors may seem like a throwback to the 1980s, when you incorporated these hues using a simple elegant touch, they can help make your wedding the most festive fete in town. Fall: When the leaves turn from green into beautiful fall hues and the air starts to have a nip of cold, what comes to mind but autumn harvest? There are many opportunities to incorporate a little flavor of fall into your wedding celebration. - Serve cider-inspired drinks and ales. - Use a leaf motif throughout all aspects of your wedding. - Include fall wildflowers in the bouquets, boutonnieres and dècor. - Serve spice, apple or pumpkin cake with cream cheese icing decorated with leaves and fall flowers. - Use cornucopias with various fruits for snacking and centerpieces. - Look to the trees for the colors of the season. Rich golds, chocolate browns, deep burgundies, dark eggplant and spicy pumpkin can turn your wedding into a harvest of love. Winter: Whether it's cold or not, when you proceed down the aisle, walk in a winter wonderland. Winter provides a serene backdrop for your nuptials. Consider adding these chilly touches to enhance the sparkle and elegance. - Include silver sparkle everywhere you can - flowers, dresses, centerpieces. - Serve warm drinks along with traditional bar fare - hot toddies and hot chocolate. - If there is snow on the ground, make sure to take some outdoor pictures, even if it's cold. You and the wedding party will look like snow angels. - Have the bride and bridesmaids carry faux fur muffs - very "Dr. Zhivago." - Use winter-like fabrics, such as velvets, in dresses and dècor. - Plan your wedding festivities with a "holiday" theme. - Colors for winter weddings should be cool. These blue-based hues can include ice blue, silver, red and emerald green. Set against the crispness of a winter day, cool colors can warm the heart. Seasonless style: The combination of black and white always makes an elegant statement. It is especially fitting for an evening wedding. You can incorporate black and white in any number of ways - dresses, accessories, flowers, favors and even dessert. This study in contrasts can pull it all together.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 2:06PM PST on March 9, 2009
Engagement and Wedding Rings If you were to wear one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be? Would you go for what is trendy and hip? Or would you be more conservative and traditional with your choice? These are the kinds of intensely personal decisions that you will face as you prepare to purchase your engagement and wedding rings. In today's world, it is rare for a man to choose an engagement ring for his fiancè-to-be or a wedding ring for his bride-to-be without asking for her input. Before you and your fiancè head into a jewelry store, become familiar with the "four C's," different stone shapes, the various setting options, wedding bands, and what's available for men beyond the traditional band. The four C's: When you look at a diamond, you can judge its quality based on the four C's - carat, color, clarity and cut. - Carat is the unit of weight used for diamonds. Carats are subdivided into points - there are 100 points to a carat. So a 130-point diamond weighs 1.3 carats. - A diamond can actually be any color in the spectrum. Completely colorless, icy-white diamonds are rare, and therefore, more valuable. The best way to see the true color of a diamond is to look at it against a white surface. - A diamond's clarity is determined by taking into account the number, size, placement, color and nature of any internal "inclusions" - external surface irregularities. Almost all diamonds have inclusions to some extent. The fewer or less noticeable the inclusions, the more valuable the diamond. - Diamonds are cut into facets - the small, flat, polished planes cut into a diamond so that the maximum amount of light is reflected. The amount of this reflection is called "brilliance" and is extremely important in evaluating the quality of a diamond. A round, full-cut diamond has 58 facets. Diamonds have a rating for each of the four Cs. Once you start looking at diamonds, you'll figure out which of them is most important to you. When considering size versus quality, keep in mind - a bigger diamond that doesn't have a high quality will just show more irregularities. If you want to be a bit more daring, use a gemstone, such as a sapphire, emerald or ruby, for your engagement stone. You can always use smaller diamonds as accent stones or on your wedding band. Shape: Stones are cut into different shapes, many of which can appear traditional and modern at the same time. One of the most popular stone shapes is round because it shows incredible brilliance and is very traditional. Also popular right now are the square princess and the long and slender emerald. Other shapes include marquis, oval and pear. Setting: The metal setting displays a stone to its best advantage. When it comes to setting, you will need to make two decisions: metal and setting style. For metal, you will choose between two basic colors: - Yellow gold is considered the "traditional" wedding band metal, and it is said to symbolize the warmth and love of marriage. - White metal is one of the hottest trends in jewelry. Platinum is the strongest metal and is very rare, a perfect metaphor for couples looking for that eternal symbol of devotion. White gold offers a similar look for less money. However, the difference is evident when you place the warmer-toned white gold next to the icy platinum. - Do you want the best of both worlds? Choose a two-toned design that features both yellow and white metals. It offers great versatility for individuals who like to wear both colors. There are many settings available, many of which are best suited for certain stone shapes and metal colors: - A prong setting is the most common type. Prongs hold a stone firmly in a metal basket. Prong setting lets the light hit the diamond from all angles, maximizing a diamond's brilliance. Four prongs show more of the diamond. Six prongs hold the diamond more securely but can overwhelm a stone. - A bezel setting is more contemporary. It consists of a metal rim with straight or scalloped edges that fully or partially surround the perimeter of the stone. It is usually a good choice for a round stone. - A diamond in a white metal bezel setting usually appears larger, and a red or green gemstone in a yellow gold bezel setting often makes the stone appear redder or greener. However, a yellow gold bezel setting can sometimes make a diamond appear less white because the yellow tint of the setting is reflected in the stone. - A channel setting places a row of stones with no metal separating them between two horizontal channels for part of the ring, or the entire ring. It has a smooth and unobtrusive surface and provides better security for small stones than some other settings. This setting is especially popular for wedding bands. - Another setting popular for a band is pavè. A pavè setting involves three or more rows of several small stones fitted into holes that set them level with the surface of the ring. The surrounding metal is then raised into beams that secure the gems. This setting gives the illusion of more and bigger stones than are actually there, but is not recommended for more fragile stones. - Other settings you may be interested in include tension (in which the stone appears to be floating), bar (in which thin vertical bars of metal are placed between stones to hold them secure) and gypsy (in which the stone sets flush into a hole in the ring so that it doesn't protrude at all). The latter is very popular for men's rings. Wedding bands: When looking at wedding bands, you can either purchase a band that matches your engagement ring or you can select one that complements it. You can also choose to solder your wedding band and engagement ring together, so that they are one ring, or keep them separate. Keep in mind, you'll have more flexibility if you keep them separate. For instance, you can wear just your band(s) when you want to be casual and include your engagement ring for dressier occasions. Once you solder them, there's no separating them without potential damage. For the groom: For most men, a wedding ring may be the only piece of jewelry they ever wear. They need to have a ring that's both comfortable and flattering. Many men's rings today have a curved - not flat - interior leading to a more comfortable fit. Men can also look for rings that have a plain, tapered bottom designed to bear the brunt of abuse. Diamond wedding rings for men are coming back. These diamonds aren't necessarily flashy, but they have subtle sparkle that makes them interesting. They also can coordinate with the bride's wedding band and be set the same way, or in a gypsy setting which is both functional and flattering for men. The metal of a man's wedding ring should match his wife's whether she has a yellow gold, platinum or a two-toned setting. It's all in the details: Whether you are the bride or groom, when trying on rings, be sure to select a style that flatters your hands. Individuals with small hands and fingers look better with a proportionately - sized ring. Vertically set stones make hands seem longer, while an oversized ring makes hands seem shorter. If you have big hands, stay away from small rings - they'll make your hands look larger. Make sure you ask your jeweler about caring for your rings. Have them cleaned regularly. And have the stones inspected for looseness. A diamond can last forever, but not if you lose your stone down a sink drain or in the yard because it was loose.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 2:02PM PST on March 9, 2009
The Ceremony Location You know the "who," "what," "why" and probably the "when." But in regard to your wedding, there is no more important "where" than the site of your ceremony. This facility is the place where you will make those lifelong promises to love and to cherish. In your pictures you will forever be standing in that spot, wearing the most beautiful dress, with your husband lovingly gazing at you, and your friends and family fondly observing. Here are some ideas to guide you toward picking the perfect site for your ceremony: - If you want to get married in a place of worship, you should pick one to which you feel connected. That could be where you currently attend services or the place you went during childhood. It could be somewhere you’ve never been but have admired from afar. - An outdoor wedding can be beautiful. Whether under a gazebo, at a park, or in a field, an outdoor wedding seems to come with Mother Nature’s seal of approval. Be careful to consider seasonal weather factors. Certain times of year are more prone to inclement weather than others. - In a museum or gallery, your wedding will be surrounded by beautiful objects. You can choose sites that display works that match your personal preferences, whether you enjoy the modern, classical, naturalistic or abstract. - A wedding at home gives you the opportunity to recite your vows in a place that is near and dear to your heart. Though it will require that you have enough room to accommodate your guest list, a home wedding will definitely have a personal touch that no other location offers. Your officiant can help you determine your options regarding ceremony sites. There are some site restrictions if you are having a religious ceremony.
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Videographers The videotape of your wedding tells the story of one of the most important days of your life. From the moment you and your bridal party arrive at the ceremony site to the final farewells at the reception, a professional videographer can document every beautiful element through the sights and the sounds he or she chooses to record. Capturing the individual moments that make your wedding celebration unique and then putting them together is an art form in itself. Your videographer is the artist who can help you relive the joy and excitement every time you press "Play." As with so many decisions you will make, begin the selection process by seeking recommendations from friends, family and even the wedding photographer you select. After narrowing your list of potential videographers, ask each one for references from couples they have worked with in the past year. And be sure to view a demonstration tape of the videographer's work before signing any contract.
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Selecting Your Photographer The images captured on the day of your wedding will likely surround you for the rest of your life. Whether it is a portrait hanging on your wall, or bringing out your wedding album to show your children and - someday - your grandchildren, your photo memories can last forever. The photographer is one of the most important wedding professionals with whom you'll work. He or she will keep things moving throughout your wedding day and work with you afterwards on selecting the images that will tell the story of your marriage. The following suggestions should be helpful in guiding you in your search for the perfect photographer. Do take time to review the accompanying questions you'll want to ask him or her. That way you'll all the answers you need before you sign a contract or put down a deposit. Locating the Talent: - Decide what photographic style you prefer - candid journalistic style or traditional posed portraits. Then seek out photographers who employ the style you like best. - Ask recently-married friends and family if you can look at their wedding albums. If you like the look and the techniques used on the pictures, get the name and number of their photographer. - Ask the other wedding professionals you're working with if they have any recommendations. Because they have attended so many weddings, they'll know who has a good reputation and the work to back it up. - Call photographers you've heard of and set up a meeting to see their book. Some photographers even display their work in shops where you'll be purchasing other wedding supplies. Asking the Right Questions: Once you've found some photographers that may be a good match, schedule a face-to-face meeting. When you're discussing your wedding, make sure to cover the following topics: - What is his or her style? If you prefer candids, the photographer should be more of a photojournalist. A traditional wedding photographer will focus more on posed portraits. - Is the work good? Are the images clear and focused? Is it either too bright or too dim? Are any effects or techniques used subtle or overdone? Make sure to carefully evaluate the quality of his or her work. - Does the photographer have wedding experience? How does he or she approach a wedding? Will he or she coordinate with a videographer? - What is the photographer's availability? Will he or she be available to you the entire day (wedding, reception and everything in between). Or might he or she book another job the same day? How late will he or she be willing to stay? - Will he or she cover a "must shoot" list? The photographer should be willing to shoot from a schedule of moments you want captured -- from arriving at the church to the last dance. You and the photographer can determine in advance how to catch those images. - What's included in the cost? Is there one flat price for the photographer's time, production and materials? How much will prints and/or albums cost? Are there any packages available? - Do you feel at ease with this photographer? You should feel confident that the photographer understands what you do and do not want in your wedding pictures. You should also have the expectation that he or she is going to cover all the bases, including bringing an extra camera and extra batteries in case of an accident. - Does he or she have references you can contact? Get a list of couples the photographer has worked with recently. Find out if he or she did a good job for them. Did they capture the important moments of the wedding? Were they easy to work with, or did they make things more stressful? Was the couple happy with the final results? If you feel comfortable with the answers you receive to these questions and the photographer is willing and able to cover the requested wedding aspects, make sure all the details you've discussed are in writing. And, as always, be careful with what you sign - make sure the contract covers everything.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:51PM PST on March 9, 2009
Music to Marry By When you envision yourself walking down the aisle, what do you hear? Music sets the tone for the celebration that is your marriage. You have many choices when it comes to music for your ceremony. Selecting Your Musicians: Your wedding musical ensemble can either be grandiose or subtle. For a more subtle sound, combine two or three flutes with a keyboard. You can include violins, harps and trumpets if you're looking for a bigger sound. And when it comes to voices, it's usually best to feature just one voice with a vocal style you enjoy, or two who combine to create harmonies. Dealing With Religious Music Requirements/Restrictions: If you have to include certain religious music, such as the Catholic "Holy Holy" or the Jewish "Simon Tov Heranu Shalom," your musicians should be able to accommodate your needs. It's their job to be familiar with religious music, and professional musicians can make arrangements to learn a special piece if given enough time to find musical arrangements. Selection Suggestions: Prelude: The prelude music begins when the doors open to guests approximately 20 minute before the ceremony begins. The prelude will serenade your guests as they enter and take their seats. - "Water Music" - Handel - "Flower Song" from "Lakme" - Delibes - "Minuet" from "Orpheus" - "Sheep May Safely Graze" - Bach Processional: This is the music that will be played as your bridesmaids meet their groomsmen and for the bride's grand entrance. You can choose just one of these pieces or a combination of two. - "Canon in D Minor" - Pachelbal - "Entre'acte to Act 3" from "Carmen" - Bizet - "The Bridal Chorus" ("Here Comes the Bride") - Wagner - "Trumpet Voluntary in D" - Purcell - "Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring" - Bach Interlude: Select interlude pieces to be played during especially meaningful moments during your ceremony, such as the ring exchange, the lighting of the unity candles, the breaking of the glass, and/or the presentation of flowers to the parents of the bride and groom. - "Only Time" - Enya - "The Gift of Love" (Traditional) - arranged by Hopson - "Ave Maria" - Schubert - "O Mio Babbino Caro" - Puccini Recessional: During the recessional, the bride and groom take their first walk as husband and wife. Celebratory music is in order. - "Ode to Joy" - Beethoven - "Vivace" from "Flute Sonata in F" - Telemann - Fourth movement from "Austia Flute Sonata in F" - Handel - "Wedding March" - Mendelssohn
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:45PM PST on March 9, 2009
Flowers With Style Of all the decisions you make in association with your wedding, choosing your flowers can be the most intimidating. There are so many varieties, breeds, and subtle variations in color. And that's not even taking into account the seasonal factors such as what flowers are available at the time of year for your wedding. The following listing includes some ideas on which to base your arrangements, the best types of flowers to use and some seasonal choices. Bridal Bouquets: Your bridal bouquet is perhaps the most important - and most photographed - arrangement in your wedding. Consider these ideas when picking your bouquet: - A gift from the groom. Since the bridal bouquet is a gift from the husband-to-be, let him pick the flowers (with some assistance, of course). Then in those moments before the ceremony when you are holding your bouquet, you'll remember that your groom chose those flowers especially for you. And you'll be able to hold the bouquet of blooms close to you as you process down the aisle. - A living memory. What did your mother carry in her wedding bouquet? What about your grandmother? Create a tradition by replicating your mom's or grandmother's bouquet. - A study in contrasts. If you want your bouquet to stand out against your white dress, carry bright flowers. - A fragrant bundle of joy. A white bouquet featuring a combination of sturdy orchids, elegant calla lilies, sweet gardenias and traditional lilies of the valley will surround you with a natural perfume. - The shape of your joy. Perhaps you want the extravagance of a cascade, the simple elegance of a round bunch, the beauty of long-stemmed blooms laying in the crook of your arm, or the pure romance of a heart. The shape of your bouquet should reflect both your personal style and the style and theme you've set for your wedding. - A matching pair. Your groom's boutonniere can be a very miniature version of your bouquet, keeping the same flowers, hues and shape but on a smaller scale. Bridesmaids' Bouquets and Groomsmen's Boutonnieres: Your bridesmaids' flowers should match the colors in their dresses, and the groomsmen's boutonnieres should match the color scheme. Following are a few fresh ideas for these flowers: - If your wedding features multiple colors, have each bridesmaid carry a bouquet that features one of the hues. For example, if you're having a spring wedding, consider having one bridesmaid carry lavender flowers, another yellow, another pink and another peach. - The groomsmen escorting them should have a boutonniere in a matching color. Use flowers with symbolism that reflect your values: - Blue violets - faithfulness - Forget-me-nots - true love - Honeysuckle - bonds of love - Ivy - fidelity - Jasmine - joy - Lilies of the valley - return of happiness - Myrtle - remembrance (especially poignant if you're remembering some dearly departed love ones during your celebration) - Red chrysanthemums, roses or tulips - love - Instead of carrying bouquets, have each bridesmaid carry a single bloom to make an elegant, bold statement. Mother-of-the-Bride/Mother-of-the-Groom Nosegays: Don't forget mom! Small bouquets make the mothers look lovely when they're being escorted down the aisle. While these bouquets should be consistent in color and style with the rest of the blooms you're using, let the mothers personalize their flowers. If they have a particular flowers that is special to them, ask the florist to include it. Floral Dècor: When discussing the flowers with your florist, don't forget altar flowers, pew decorations, as well as reception centerpieces and displays. Let your florist know your wedding theme and style. If possible provide photographs of your ceremony and reception sites. He or she should be able to provide some innovative ideas for your arrangements.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:44PM PST on March 9, 2009
Get With the Program Your wedding program is not only a keepsake for your guests, it also lets them participate in and more fully enjoy your ceremony. From the moment guests arrive, the program sets the tone with your theme, your colors, and the events that will take place during your wedding. Information to include: - On the front cover, you will want to include your name and the name of your fiance, the date, time and ceremony location. You may also want to include the overriding motif if you're incorporating one - such as a flower or a leaf. - On the inside, list the order of events during the ceremony, including the titles of all musical selections (from the prelude to the recessional); the readings and names of the readers; and any traditions you're performing (i.e., lighting the unity candle, breaking the glass). Your officiant can help you list the different parts of the ceremony. - On the back cover, list the members of your wedding party and their relationship to you. The back cover also is good place to list any "thank you" messages you'd like to make. For instance, you may wish to acknowledge your parents, the wedding coordinator and/or officiant. If you're including a memorial to a departed loved one, list it here. - Some programs also have an insert sheet that lists your address, phone number and e-mail address. This information is especially important if you are moving to a new residence. Your guests will be able to include you in their address books without having to call your family or friends for the information. Printing and assembly: - Some invitation styles have a coordinating program. You will need to provide the information you want in the program to your invitation vendor. When picking the program's font and ink color, you should use the same font and ink color as you did for the invitation. Thus, the program complements or matches your invitation. - You could layout your program on your home computer with simple word processing software. Do choose an elegant font for your type. - For decoration, a ribbon (in your main wedding color or the same color as the ink) laced through the spine of the program and tied in a knot or a bow makes an elegant statement. Some couples even include subtle beading on the ribbon for added sparkle. Distribution: Ask a good friend or family member who you'd like to include in the wedding festivities to hand out programs. The programs can be placed in baskets decorated with your colors that are then held by one or two program distributors. Often, two individuals hand out programs - one for each side of the church. They should be standing at the entrance from the time that the doors open until the doors close for the beginning of the processional.
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Choosing Your Officiant Your officiant does more than oversee the marriage ceremony. He or she is the person who can help you bring your dreams and ideas to life. The officiant will keep you informed of any requirements or restrictions when it comes to your ceremony. Since you may be working with someone you don't know well, be sure to ask detailed questions to determine if you and your potential officiant are a match made in heaven. On the phone, before you meet in person, find out the following: - Is the officiant available on the date you've chosen? Obviously, if he or she isn't available on your date, this isn't going to work out. - What, if any, documentation is required for the first meeting? Some religions require baptism certificates or other documentation. - Is he or she open to personalized vows, particular readings or music? Some religions have restrictions on using secular music or readings. Some require that you use traditional vows. - Are pre-wedding counseling or classes required? Again, some religions require couples to attend retreats or "marriage classes" before allowing them to tie the knot. - Is there an officiant's ceremony fee? Fees for an officiant can range from approximately $20-$200 for performing a service. If you require the participation of other lay people, such as musicians, it is likely they also will have a fee. If you feel comfortable with the officiant on the phone and can accommodate his or her requirements and restrictions, you will want to schedule a meeting before sealing the deal. When you meet, go over the details of the site and the ceremony. Including the following: - Tour the site, noting the capacity, general layout and accessibility. Be sure to note wheelchair accessibility if necessary. - What the site provides vs. what you'll need to provide - i.e., the runner, flowers, candles. - Your ideas for music and readings so the officiant can tell you if there are any restrictions. - Your choice of vows if you're not going the traditional route. - Your thoughts on the sermon the officiant plans to deliver. He or she may offer to let you hear it in advance. - Dress code for your site. Some religious sites require a covered head, sleeved clothes or other wardrobe restrictions. - Any documentation matters including the marriage certificate and marriage license. - Accessibility for the photographer and videographer, so you can let them know where they will and won't be allowed to go at the ceremony site. - Officiant and site availability for the rehearsal.
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Let Them Eat Cake! What is the most memorable aspect of your wedding? Some of your guests will talk about the bridesmaids' gowns. Others will discuss the lovely flowers. Many will exclaim over how beautiful the bride looked. But the one aspect of the wedding that all your guests - men and women, children, parents and grandparents - will remark on is the wedding cake. Your wedding cake not only serves as the culmination of a delightful dinner - and a wonderful day - but also as a delicious dessert. It makes a style statement as it embodies the theme of your wedding, whether you chose seasonal or sophisticated celebrations of your marital vows. Starting the Planning: Throughout the wedding planning process, you should always keep the cake in mind. However, you shouldn't officially start designing your cake until after other major decisions - such as the theme, dress styles and reception venue - are finalized. All of these factors will affect how you look at and make choices regarding your cake. When choosing a baker or cake designer, ask friends and families for recommendations. Make appointments with these bakers for some tastings and discuss what they offer, including flavors, fillings, frostings, as well as toppers and/or other dècor. Find out which combinations you like and ask them to estimate a price per slice based on the number of guests. Then choose the baker that meets your tastes and your budget. Confections With Class: Today, you don't see many cakes with pillars and fountains. Modern cakes resemble current dress design - clean and simple design. Of course, the variations on this classic wedding reception element put the icing on your personal style. Tiers: The tiers of a cake are much like the shape of diamonds. The most popular tier shape is round. But square tiers are also becoming popular. They can be styled to resemble stacked gift boxes. Oval shapes are a new trend, giving cakes a distinctive look. You can also consider stacking differently shaped tiers atop one another to create a multidimensional appearance. Flavors: What is your favorite kind of cake? Of course, the classics are white and chocolate, but there are many other flavors available. What about lemon or lime? Cranberry or hazelnut? Even carrot cake! Alert your baker to your favorite flavor, and he or she may be able to satisfy that sweet tooth. You should base your filling choice on the kind of cake you select. Combine classic white cake with classic vanilla crème, aromatic lemon curd or mousse, or white chocolate. Pair rich, moist chocolate cake with mocha, amaretto or Grand Marnier crème. Tiramisu and cannoli crème (sweet ricotta cheese) also make flavorful and unique fillings. Or look at exotic fruits for exciting fillings - passion fruit, pineapple, coconut, cherry or orange. Your filling can be as subtle or as unusual as you'd like. Colors: Wedding cakes usually are iced in white to match the bride's dress. Rich vanilla buttercream is a perfect choice. However, you can pick any of a number of colors. Hues that match or complement the bridesmaids' gowns can add subtle color to your cake - through pink, pale green, ice blue and lavender ornamentation. Dark chocolate mocha-flavored cream on a chocolate cake makes a flavorful combination. Dècor: Cake trimmings are available to meet any desire. Fresh flowers that match the bride's or bridesmaids' bouquet(s) can grace the cake. Ribbons can encircle the tiers. The icing can also be textured. Basketweave patterns, Swiss dots, swirls or even your married initials can be woven throughout the cake's design. Toppers: Flowers or ribbons (made of sugar or real materials) can grace the top of your cake. Or you can use ornamental pieces that have special meaning to you. A vintage topper that your parents or grandparents used can be lovely. Don't Forget the Groom: If you've always dreamed of a classic white cake but also want to include another flavor or style, a groom's cake can accommodate your wishes. This unique cake can be anything from classic tiers to unusual shapes. It may have a theme centered around special moments (i.e., a replica of the place you were engaged, or the place you're going on your honeymoon) or a favorite hobby (i.e., tennis or golf). Just don't forget to consult the groom - it is his cake after all. Consulting Your Baker: Whatever your dream cake may be, however extravagant or simple, consult your baker about the reality of making that cake come to life. Using pictures you've snipped out of magazines, or the description of what's in your imagination, he or she can help you make your wedding cake dream come true. Sweet Treats: Wedding favors are little "thank you" gifts for your guests. To show them how much you appreciate having them celebrate with you on your special day. How can you find a favor all your guests will enjoy? Give them a "sweet memory" of your wedding - a treat they can eat. Check out the following suggestions for edible favors that you can order either from a baker or a local confectionery:
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:42PM PST on March 9, 2009
Band or DJ? The music at your wedding can make or break the mood. To keep things moving and upbeat, you must depend on either a professional disc jockey (DJ) or live band. The following compilation details the attributes of both, to help you decide the perfect music choice for you. DJ: A good DJ does much more than pop in the CDs. He or she sets the tone for your entire reception. The DJ usually serves as a master of ceremonies, announcing each of the important events of the reception - from the entrance of the wedding party to the last dance of the evening. A charismatic DJ gets all the guests involved and keeps the party going. As to price, a DJ may be more economical than a band - you're paying for the time of just one person as opposed to a group of people. The DJ service you choose should use professional sound and lighting equipment. He or she should also provide a wireless microphone to use during toasts. And, most importantly, the DJ should have a wide selection of music. When you use a DJ, you'll have access to a variety of music genres and songs - from country to soul from rock to jazz. You don't have to stick with just one type of music. And if you want to use a song the DJ doesn't carry, you can always bring it along yourself. You'll be able to play any recording available. When your DJ takes a break, it need not stop the party. He or she can play multiple selections in a row to keep the party going. Make sure to get a DJ whose personality and emcee skills are exciting and attention-getting. This doesn't mean he or she needs to be loud and obnoxious - a quiet, laid-back DJ may be just the person for a certain crowd. However, a dull DJ can kill the mood and drag down the entire reception. Make sure you see your DJ in action before booking him or her. Band: A live band can really get your guests in a party mood while, by example, setting the scene for the celebration. A good bandleader will not only act as master of ceremonies, but also encourage guest interaction. He or she can get a feel for the room and pick up the pace when there seems to be a lull in the action. Live music can be exhilarating for guests. And many musicians specialize in particular musical genres. Bands are available that play Motown classics, swing, country, rock, pop, music from the 80s, or any other type of music that gets your guests' feet moving. A live band also offers an air of sophistication to a party. Even guests who won't get up and dance can admire the artistry of professional musicians. For the most part, a band will be more expensive than a DJ. After all, you're paying for the talent of several live musicians. Also, when a band takes a break, the transition is more noticeable. Guests will likely leave the dance floor even if a CD is played. Some bands take five-minute breaks, others take 20-minute breaks. Be sure to check out the break policies of the bands you're talking to before signing a contract. And you'll want to see a live performance to make sure the band can match any recordings that may have caught your ear. No Matter Which Way You Go ... Whether band or DJ, there are certain details you should cover with the musical entertainment for your reception before booking them:
As you know, it is imperative to get all details in writing before you hire your band or DJ. Carefully read over the contract to make sure everything is covered, so you can dance all night without a worry.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:38PM PST on March 9, 2009
Put on Your Dancing Shoes Your reception will have some very special moments that you will remember the rest of your life, especially the ceremonial dances you share with your loved ones. You'll want to select songs that suit you and your style. In addition, these musical selections should reflect your relationships with these special men in your life: your new husband, your father, stepfather, grandfather or uncles. Check out the list below to find some melodious options for these dances. Then put on your dancing shoes. The First Dance: Whether you prefer classic standards or something a little more modern, you can be sure to find the perfect song for your first dance as a married couple: Standards:
Rock Power Ballads:
Modern Marriage Music:
Father-Daughter Dance: Weddings are very emotional for the father-of-the-bride. He's just escorted his little girl down the aisle and presented her to her husband. The father-daughter dance, amidst all the activity that makes up a wedding, is a chance for dad and his daughter to spend some time together before she departs the family and begins her new life.
Mother-Son Dance: At his wedding, every man can be a mama's boy, at least while the mother-of-the-groom dances with her special guy.
Wedding Party Dance: They've been your friends, they've stood by you. Now, they'll dance with you. Pick a special song for your wedding party.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:35PM PST on March 9, 2009
Your Reception Hall Selecting Your Reception Site: Your wedding ceremony is just the beginning of the festivities. The celebration continues at your reception. Your wedding reception may be the most important - and largest - party you will ever throw. And a great party deserves a great venue. There are many factors to take into consideration when selecting your reception site, including: The number of guests. A large guest list requires a large venue, such as a reception hall or hotel ballroom. Some halls can accommodate up to 900 guests and more. If you have a small guest list, you will be able to have your reception in a more intimate setting, such as a museum, botanical garden or historic home. Ambiance and atmosphere. Do you want a formal hall with separate areas for drinks, dining and dancing? Perhaps your site would look beautiful by candlelight. Maybe you want something a little more rustic? Do you want to feel fresh air on your face? Whether you're looking for roomy and airy, or close and cozy, try to view the venues you're considering after the facility's staff sets up for a wedding or while a reception is in progress. That way, you'll be able to judge what the room looks like with decorations and people, and tell whether it's the right atmosphere for you. Surroundings. Do you see your reception surrounded by green trees? Or perhaps a view of the city's skyline? Maybe you want to be surrounded by colorful blooms or a country field. When you look at a reception venue, consider not only the interior but also the exterior. Look out the windows and make sure you're happy with what you see. Facility services. Some reception sites can provide you with a number of services that may make your planning easier, including an on-site wedding coordinator, catering and wait staff, bakers, and valets. If a site does not provide these services the staff should be able to provide you with a list of recommended providers with whom they've worked before or with whom they have special pricing arrangements. Many brides say that finding a reception site is much like shopping for your dress - not only can you imagine it clearly when you close your eyes, but you'll know the right one when you see it. And with so many venues available throughout the Dining Styles The type of wedding you have chosen - casual or formal, traditional or contemporary - should determine the dining style you choose for your reception dinner. Somewhere within these choices will be a dining style that suits you as a couple, your guests and your celebration. Sit-Down Reception For a formal affair with an elegant tone, a sit-down reception is the ideal choice. Guests generally mingle during a cocktail hour and are called to dinner by meal chimes. Waiters then serve them their courses at their tables. A sit-down reception often times seems to flow quite easily since the guests all can be served at one time. Buffet Reception A buffet reception is the right choice if your wedding is more casual and you'd like to serve a variety of foods. With multiple choices of entrees and side dishes, all your guests are sure to find something they will enjoy. However, if you have a large number of guests some guests may be finished with their meal while others are still waiting to get their food. Other guests may be forced to carry their food through an obstacle course of other guests, tables and chairs to get back to their seats. For a larger reception, you may want to consider setting up two buffets - one at either end of the room. And make sure that you and your groom are served at a head table by the wait staff. There will be many photos taken and you won't want to risk a spill while walking the buffet line. Food Station Reception If your wedding is more modern, consider food stations. Small buffets can be set up around the room, each featuring a different type of food or theme. For instance, one station can offer Chinese food, with won tons, crab Not only will you be able to serve a large variety of foods, but also food stations encourage your guests to mingle. However, with guests up and about, it may be difficult to get their attention for traditional wedding moments, such as the cutting of the cake, first dance and bouquet toss. And much like the buffet setting, make sure that you and your groom are served at a head table by the wait staff. You don't want to risk a spill on your gown while you or someone else is walking with food. Seating Arrangements at the Reception At your reception, there are specific places of honor so that the people who are close to you can be seated nearby. The Bridal Party's Table Traditionally, the bridal party's table is rectangular with seating on just one side, so the guests can have a good view of the couple. Sometimes, this head table is on a raised platform. The bride and groom sit in the center, with the best man on the right next to the bride and the maid/matron of honor on the left next to the groom. The other members of the bridal party are seated on either side, with men and women alternating. Some couples find that the traditional seating arrangement makes them feel as though they are on display. As an alternative, the bridal party can be seated at a round table utilizing the same seating order as a rectangular table. Parents' Tables Since a child's wedding is a special day for moms and dads, both sets of parents should have their own table with guests, including grandparents, aunts and uncles. Traditionally, the officiant, and his or her spouse (if applicable), are seated with the bride's parents. Guest Tables When arranging seating for your guests, you can either group people together who already know one another, or seat guests together whom you believe have similar interests. A seating chart and place cards can help the dinner seating run smoothly. Write guests' names and table numbers on both sides of the card, to facilitate table conversation, then place the cards in alphabetical order on a table near the reception entrance. Order of Events at the Reception There are many important, traditional activities that take place during the reception. To ensure that you will have time to enjoy each of these events without having to rush, it's a good idea to determine a schedule of events in advance and provide copies to all vendors, including caterer, photographer and DJ. 6:30 p.m. - Cocktails and Hors D'oeuvres When your guests arrive, they will mingle while enjoying cocktails and appetizers. The DJ or band will play music to start off the party on the right note. Generally, the guests will still be mingling when the bride and groom arrive. You may choose to have your arrival announced so that guests enjoy your entrance. You may be asked to cut the cake upon your arrival so the catering staff can begin preparing the slices. Make sure your photographer knows the time the cake cutting will take place so he or she can capture the moment. 7:30 p.m. - Dinner When the dinner chimes ring, your guests will pick up their place cards and find their tables. Then the members of the bridal party will be announced and seated. Before dinner is served, champagne should be poured at each guest's place in preparation for the toasts. Often, the father of the bride will offer words of welcome, followed by the toasts of first the best man, then the maid or matron of honor. You may want either your officiant or another individual to offer a blessing over the food. Finally, dinner is served. 8:45 p.m. - Traditional Dances After the dinner plates are cleared, the bride and groom take center stage for their first dance as a married couple. This is followed by the father/daughter dance, then the mother/son dance. Then the bridal party enjoys a dance, pairing the bridesmaids and groomsmen who walked up the aisle together. 9 p.m. - Dessert Is Served After the traditional dances are complete, the catering staff serves slices of cake and/or another desert to your guests. The bride and groom should take time to enjoy the cake - not squishing cake into each other's face. 9:05 p.m. - Tossing the Bouquet For the bouquet toss the single women assemble on the dance floor. When the bride tosses her bouquet, the one who catches it is said to be the next to marry. Do have a special bouquet made for tossing if you would like to preserve your actual bouquet. Some couples may choose to also have a garter toss, where the groom tosses the garter to the single men. You may want the photographer to stage a picture showing the holders of the bouquet and garter. 9:15 p.m. - Dancing the Night Away Consider starting the evening's dancing with an upbeat song all your guests can enjoy. 10:45 p.m. - Bon Voyage! The newlyweds leave the reception and prepare for traveling. Guests assemble to wish them farewell and the party winds down. Lights that were dimmed when the dancing began come up so guests know to gather their belongings and prepare to depart
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It is true when they say that beauty is skin deep. So you should do your best to take care of your complexion to ensure radiant skin. Following are some steps to make sure your complexion is in the best shape possible on your wedding day. Six months before your wedding, consult a skin care specialist or dermatologist for a good cleansing program. An expert can help you determine what kinds of products will work best with your skin type. He or she also can help you figure out how to take care of any problem areas. Take a serious look at your nutrition. If you don't already do so, start drinking at least eight glasses of water a day. Water not only hydrates you, but also leads to clear skin. Stay away from caffeine. Avoid items such as tea, coffee and soda, as well as greasy foods. Start paying attention to what you eat. Veggies and fruits are better for your skin than fast food. Approximately three to four months before your wedding make an appointment for a facial. Make sure the spa you select has licensed clinicians working on your skin. Let the person performing your service know what the skin care expert or dermatologist said about your skin and what products you use. He or she can tailor the facial so it doesn't aggravate your skin. If you enjoy the experience and have good results (clear, smooth skin), consider scheduling regular facial appointments before your wedding. Now is a good time to experiment with self-tanners if you think you'll want a little color for your wedding. Test several brands to see which shows the best color and how they otherwise react to your skin. Obviously, you won't want to use any product that causes break outs, splotches or other irritations. Find out the method of application that best works for you. Six weeks before your wedding is a good time to do a trial run of any professional waxing services you may need from eyebrows, to upper lip, to bikini waxes - especially if you're planning on wearing swimsuits on your honeymoon. Determine how your skin reacts to the waxing. Some people have no reaction at all. Others experience extreme redness, bumps and irritation. Find out now how you can best take care of your skin's reaction so you'll know what to do for your next appointment. Nothing looks better against clear skin that a bright, white smile. Try whitening toothpaste or professional bleaching to make your smile brighter than it's been in years. Two weeks before your wedding keep up the good work. Even though things are probably getting hectic, make sure you follow your skin care regime and continue drinking plenty of water. And no matter how rushed you are, try to limit your fast food intake. Grease is a complexion destroyer! One week before your wedding, have your final waxing appointments and facial before the wedding. Make sure this last facial is gentle and relaxing. You won't want to have any extractions or do anything that may irritate your skin so close to the big day.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:32PM PST on March 9, 2009
Bridal Gowns Most women have dreamed about their wedding dress since they were little girls. Your bridal gown is probably the biggest fashion purchase you will ever make. When you close your eyes and picture yourself in your wedding gown, what do you see? How do you make that vision a reality? Your goal should be to find the perfect dress - the one that turns you into the bride of your dreams. Don't settle for anything less. Your Attitude and Style: As you go about planning your wedding, you are sure to have picked themes and styles that represent your personal tastes and preferences. That is what should drive your choice in a wedding gown. The look and feel of the gown should reflect who you are and what you enjoy. Are you laid-back and casual? Do your wedding plans reflect that? Then so should your dress. Or are you more conservative, a traditionalist? Then a more formal gown will naturally appeal to you. The Best Gown for Different Shapes: Casual or formal, romantic or modern, the dress you pick should flatter your physical attributes. Take a moment to review the accompanying list of body types and the gown styles that best suit them. - If you have an hourglass figure, with a full bust and hips and a thin waist, you have curves in all the right places. Consider an A-line gown with a sweetheart neckline to display your attributes to their best advantage. - If you are short waisted, an A-line gown will elongate your figure. If you have toned arms and shoulders, consider a halter neckline. It will draw attention to that area. - If you have a thick, undefined waist, try an empire-waist gown, which will give you a long, trim look. - If you're full-figured, a ball gown will de-emphasize the body areas you want to hide. An A-line gown will create a slimming silhouette. - If you're pear-shaped, with a small chest and heavier bottom, a strapless ball gown will cover the bottom and draw attention up. An off-the-shoulder neckline will give the illusion of balance between your top and bottom. - If you are thin, a ball gown will emphasize your trim size and make you look like an elegant ballerina. A sheath always hangs beautifully on a slim body. - If you are petite, go for a simple A-line gown or sheath. An elaborate ballgown style may appear to be wearing you. Color (or Lack Thereof) and Embellishments: Believe it or not, bridal gowns come in many colors, although white remains the first choice of the modern bride. Colors such as soft pink, blue or green are new options. Metallics, like silver, gold and copper, are also becoming prominent. For those brides who want to shine, some dresses come uniquely embellished. From rhinestones to pearl flowers, today's gowns shine with elegance. Or go glitzy with beading and embellishments in gold, silver, bronze and color overlays as dress accents. Heading for the Stores: Once you have a firm idea of what you may see in the stores and what best suits you, it's time to start shopping. Bridal shops vary in policy, but keep in mind the following list of questions you should ask on the phone before you arrive in person. - Will I need an appointment? Some shops require an appointment to even view bridal gowns. - What are the hours? Some bridal shops are only open certain days during the week. Others keep evening hours only on specified days. - Which designers does the store carry? If you've been pouring over wedding magazines and of course you have, you may have your heart set on a Vera Wang or a Scaasi. - What range of prices and sizes are carried? At higher-end shops, you may not be able to find a bridal gown under $1,000. There are shops that specialize in plus-size dresses. - Ask If you can look through the gowns yourself or will you have to look with a salesperson? Some shops have such vast inventory, they simply ask you the types of gowns you'd like to try on and then bring you samples to preview. Take the following items with you when you're shopping for gowns: - A strapless bra or bustier - Panty hose - A pair of shoes with the same type of heel as the ones you plan to wear for your wedding - Your mom, sister(s), honor attendant and/or bridesmaids. Try to limit your group to three people. And do remember that the one person who really wants to be there is your mom! After you've found the dress - and you'll know it when you see it - find out the following information from your salesperson. - How long will it take for the dress to arrive? Can it be rushed if necessary? Although you know you should start shopping early, it may take you awhile to find the right gown. - Will the dress you order look exactly like the one you try on? Make sure you're getting exactly what you want. - Does the dress have a matching headpiece? While you might not want a headpiece that exactly matches your dress and may instead choose a complementary one, it's good to know whether you have the option. - Does the store carry headpieces, or can they suggest a store with a good selection of headpieces? Your salesperson can either help you pick out a headpiece and veil, or direct you to a quality shop. - What alterations will need to be done? How much will they cost and can you get a written estimate? Get everything in writing. - If your bridesmaids order their dresses through this store, are there discounts available? Some stores offer a percentage off your gown or your bridesmaids' dresses if you order all from them. - How much is the deposit? Some shops require a flat fee, others ask for a percentage of the overall price. - What are the cancellation/refund policies? Check to see if there is a certain time period during which you can cancel your order and have your deposit refunded. - When is the final balance due? Some stores require final payment before the dress comes in. - Can the store list everything about the dress on the contract? As always - get everything in writing. For your gown, this means the designer's name, size, price, color, fabric, manufacturer, style number and delivery date. Will you work with the same salesperson when you come in for fittings? Some salespeople are there to sell only. In that case, you'll deal with a different staffer for fittings.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:31PM PST on March 9, 2009
Bridal Headpieces and Accessories Now that you've chosen your bridal gown, it's time to put the icing on the cake! Shopping for a headpiece, veil and other accessories gives you a chance to put your personal stamp on your wedding day appearance. Keep in mind that your personality can most come through with accessories that complement, not exactly match, your gown. The following information on headpieces, veils and other accessories can help you appear exactly as you want on your wedding day. Headpieces: When you meet with your hairstylist for your wedding hair consultation, the two of you can determine what hairstyle suits your face shape: updo, loose and flowing, or somewhere in between. Then you can consider what headpiece would best complement your gown and your hairstyle. Here are a few of the most popular: - A bunwrap is a decorative circular band that gets wrapped around a chignon or updo. Bunwraps look best with traditional, simple gowns. - A crown is a full, high circular piece that circles a bun or updo and is adorned with gems or beads. If your dress has some embellishment, a crown can tie the look together. - A headband is a half-circle band of either plain fabric or fabric embellished with gems and beads. Headbands also are available in styles that have a wider middle, and tapered ends. - A tiara is a jeweled or beaded semi-circle that sits on top of the head and can give a bride a regal look. - A wreath may be a good match for a flowing ethereal gown. It features a full circle of flowers and ribbon that rests on the crown of the head. A wreath looks best with a loose, flowing hairstyle. Veils: A veil, once a must-have for all weddings, is now more of an optional accessory. Whether or not you want to wear a veil depends on your personality, the style of gown you are wearing and the overall feel of your wedding. Veils are seen most often at more formal, elegant weddings. When you're considering veils, first look in the mirror. The shape of your face - whether soft and curved or more angular - will help determine what kind of veil you should have. - A round-faced bride should consider a veil that falls along the sides of the face, helping it to appear more narrow. This effect is further complemented by hair worn down in loose curls or a bob. - A square jawline can be softened by a longer veil and loose tendrils surrounding the face. - An oblong face - or longer oval - looks good with a veil that adds width. A "waterfall" veil paired with a simple updo and elegant headpiece looks wonderful. However, stay away from high-piled hairstyles that accentuate the face length. - For a heart-shaped or triangular face, consider a veil that attaches behind the neckline - best with a chignon. - A bride with a diamond or oval face has limitless options, since those shapes are symmetrical. Accessories: There are more accessories that you can use to further personalize your wedding day look. - A shawl or wrap can accentuate your dress and keep you warm. - Your shoes, no matter what style you choose, should be comfortable. - Gloves can add that extra touch of elegance to any gown. - Your engagement ring and wedding band(s) will be slipped on your finger during the ceremony. - A necklace can accentuate certain necklines. - Earrings should be ornate with a simple gown, or simple when worn with an embellished gown or other extravagant jewelry. - Bracelets can add subtle sparkle but shouldn't take away from your rings. - A watch is only appropriate if it has sentimental value.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:30PM PST on March 9, 2009
Little Tykes - Ringbearer Fashion Little boys can be hard to keep up with, especially at a wedding. It is often said that no one has a better time at the reception than the ringbearer. With adorable antics, he could steal the show. And he should be wearing attire that is scene-stealing appropriate. The ringbearer can wear the same style attire as the groomsmen if a tuxedo is available in children's sizes. They reflect a 'younger version' of the groom. If you don't want to put the little guy in a tuxedo, for a fall or winter wedding, he can wear a satin or velvet suit in a color that complements the bridesmaids' gowns. In spring and summer, consider a seersucker or sailor suit. Whatever your ringbearer wears, make sure that the outfit fits him and that he is comfortable. You don't want his tuxedo jacket to mysteriously disappear, never to be seen again. Or find he has decided to strip off the offending clothing article during the ceremony - now that's a scene stealer!
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:29PM PST on March 9, 2009
Bridesmaid Beauty - Picking the Perfect Gowns Everyone has heard the dreaded stories about all the ugly bridesmaids' dresses sitting in the back of women's closets. Not only are they never to be worn again, but they also cost an exorbitant amount of money. To help ensure that your name will not be added to the list of "good friend, bad bride," there are many factors to take into account when selecting bridesmaids' gowns: - Decide how you want the bridesmaid dresses to complement your bridal gown. If the bridal gown is simple, you don't want to select ornate bridesmaids' gowns. - Consider the complexions and hair colors of your bridesmaids before choosing a color. Choose colors you think will look good on all of your bridesmaids. - Choose a style that flatters the different sizes and shapes of your bridesmaids. Sure, that strapless tube dress may look wonderful on the model in your wedding magazine. But if you were a bridesmaid, would you feel comfortable in it? Keep in mind that simple, elegant styles can make all your bridesmaids happy. - Ask your maid or matron of honor to be in charge of helping the other bridesmaids with their gowns. - Keep cost in the front of your mind. You shouldn't ask your bridesmaids to pay more than $100 to $300 for the entire ensemble. - Take your honor attendant and/or some other bridesmaids with you to look. You may get some insight into what they're looking for when you see the styles they gravitate toward.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:29PM PST on March 9, 2009
Marriage Makeup When thinking about the makeup you'll wear on your wedding day, there are many factors to take into account. Do-It-Yourself or Hire an Expert? For some women, picking out and applying makeup comes naturally. For others it can be a challenge. If you have a steady hand and a good eye for makeup trends and colors, hit the cosmetic counters yourself. There should be salespeople on hand who can give you tips on colors and application. If the thought of visiting a makeup counter alone and then applying the makeup that will be seen by all your guests and in photographs makes you nervous, consider hiring a makeup artist. But first, do your research. Ask your hairstylist or someone else at the salon that you frequent if they have any suggestions. Then schedule a consultation. During the consultation, show your makeup artist a Polaroid of your dress, headpiece and veil. Discuss what you think you may be doing with your hair. Then see if he or she suggests suitable makeup. Deciding What to Emphasize: The feature you decide to emphasize depends upon the facial feature you think is most flattering and the style of your wedding. When you emphasize one feature, the rest of your makeup must be toned down. For instance, don't combine strong cheeks, eyes and lips. You want to look like a better version of yourself, not someone that wears too much makeup. - Emphasize your cheeks if you have high cheekbones and good "apples." A look with flushed cheeks could complement a flowing, airy gown and an outdoor wedding. Make sure you apply with a light hand, though. You don't want it to look like you have two red dots. - Emphasize your eyes if you want a more modern look. Kohl-rimmed eyes are still fashionable but it can be a hard look to pull off on your own. Go to either a makeup consultant at a cosmetic counter or consult a makeup artist on how to layer pearly gray, charcoal and black shadow and liner to create dramatic eyes. - Strong red lips are very fashionable if your look is traditional, like that of a 1950's bride. Try to find the right shade of red for you. There are many varieties - blue-based reds, pinkish reds, orange reds and brown reds - to pick from these days. Learn to layer lip products properly for maximum staying power and minimum feathering. Again, consult a makeup expert or makeup artist on how to pull off this look. Pulling Off the Natural Look: If you don't often wear makeup, the natural look may be best for you. That doesn't mean going without makeup. It does mean that your makeup is applied with a soft touch and a subtle hand. A slight flush to your cheeks, some accentuation to draw attention to the eyes, lips that are just a shade darker than your natural color with lots of shine. Keep in mind that for photographs and video footage, you will want slightly stronger makeup than you're used to for greater visibility. Do a Test Run: Whatever style you select, whether you apply it yourself or have the help of a professional makeup artist, schedule a test run with your makeup. Apply it exactly as you plan to wear it on your wedding day, then take some snapshots. Analyze whether the makeup is too subtle, too dramatic or just right. A perfect time for a makeup practice session is when you do the test run for your wedding hair - including your headpiece and veil. That way, you'll have a better idea of your complete look.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:28PM PST on March 9, 2009
Newlywed Nails Beautiful Hands and Feet for Your Wedding Day: It's known as the ring shot - when your photographer takes a shot of your hand with a bright, shiny wedding ring on your ring finger, lovingly grasping the hand of your husband. The last thing anyone wants to see in the ring shot are discolored, jagged nails and ragged cuticles. Not good with manicure tools? Here are some tips on nails that will make any ring look that much better. Shape: Your fingernail beds - the nail area from your cuticle to the whites - have a distinct shape. Are they long, short or in between? When considering what shape to file your nails, look to your nail bed to guide you. Pointed oval tips are best for those with long nail beds. Squared tips best suit short nail beds. And softly rounded tips complement any bed shape. When it comes to your toes, the nails should be cut straight across. Then shape only the big toe slightly with a file. Length: You don't want any snags on your wedding day, do you? With all of the handshaking, hugging, bouquet holding and cake slicing, you want fingernails you can work with. Keep nails fairly short or medium length. That way, you'll have less chance of having one break. Color: Against a white wedding dress, soft neutral colors look best. Consider blush pink, pearl or opal. A French manicure looks very elegant and is perfect for a wedding. For your toes, you could match your fingernails. French manicures look charming on toes. Or you could have your "something blue" on your feet - a bright blue nail polish could be fun if you're daring. Fake It: If you're a closet nail biter, have weak nails or nails that just don't hold polish no matter what you do, fake it. Two weeks before your wedding, get a full set of acrylic nails. They can be any length or shape you prefer. They're very durable, and polish never chips off them. You may need a little while to get used to them, but acrylic nails consistently look great. This will be especially nice when you're on your honeymoon and still have beautiful nails. If you're concerned about harming your natural nail, just have the acrylic nails removed when you return from the honeymoon. Great looking nails at your wedding and on your honeymoon are well worth the price and effort.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:27PM PST on March 9, 2009
Parental Pride - Fashions for Mom and Dad They raised you, they helped you. Now they're seeing you through to an important phase in your life - marriage. Parents deserve to look as great as they feel. Parents' fashions have changed to reflect more modern styles. Mothers: The mother of the bride and mother of the groom have all eyes on them as they walk down the aisle. And they'll be in more pictures than they've been in since their own wedding days. So why look matronly? Bridal professionals agree that mothers of the bride and groom are looking modern and fashionable these days. They should begin their shopping once the bride has chosen her gown and the bridesmaids' dresses. Traditionally, the mother of the bride sets the tone. The mothers shouldn't match each other, either. The mothers should consult with each other as to the style and color of their dresses. The mothers' dresses should complement their personal style and coloring but shouldn't clash with - or exactly match - the wedding colors. The formality of their dresses should be in the same tone as the bridal party. Fathers: Whether you're daddy's little girl or his big boy, the fathers want to look their best. Fathers can purchase the same tuxedos as the groomsmen. However, if that look is too modern for them, they can wear a more traditional tuxedo. They can also tone down the color. If colored vests are worn by the groomsmen, the fathers will best be suited in black or gray. And traditionally, the fathers' tuxedos match each other and the groomsmen in formality and style.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:26PM PST on March 9, 2009
Pretty as a Petal - Flower Girl Fashion When a little flower girl floats down the aisle at a wedding, she reminds the guests of what the bride must have been like as a child. And while you want her dress to match the overall scheme of the wedding, you don't want to choose anything that detracts from her girlish charm. Pretty, feminine dresses continue to define the flower girl's image, as her dress traditionally is similar to the bridesmaids in color and style. Some brides prefer the flower girl's ensemble to resemble her own, using similar elements such as pearl beading or lace. It's not uncommon today to see flower girls mini veils to complement the bride's attire. Another fashion trend is the inclusion of faux flower petals in the tulle overlay of the flower girls' skirt - as a subtle way to tie in the colors of the bride's floral bouquet.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:25PM PST on March 9, 2009
The Dashing Gentlemen On the wedding day, most of the attention is focused on the bride and her bridesmaids. After all, their attire sets the mood and tone for the entire wedding. But the men are important as well. You want the groom and the groomsmen to get noticed too - and not because they're dressed poorly. Types of Formal Wear: - For a semiformal daytime wedding, suits are actually more appropriate than tuxedos. Men can wear a tie or go without one. - For a semiformal evening wedding, a dark tuxedo and bow tie with cummerbund or vest is appropriate. Or men could wear a dark suit. Wear a white wing-tipped or turned-down collared shirt. - At a formal daytime wedding, choose from tuxedos, tailcoats and gray strollers. Wear it with a white spread-collar shirt, a vest that matches the coat, and an ascot. - Formal evening weddings call for black tie. Wear a classic black tuxedo with a white wing - or spread-collar shirt, black bow tie, and a matching vest or cummerbund. Just because the men are wearing tuxes doesn't mean that they have to be boring. The latest trends in tuxedos are longer jackets with a narrow cut. And vests come in a variety of colors and textures. Even though all the men are basically dressed the same, it is appropriate for the groom to stand out, especially since it's his big day. "The groom may wear a different vest color, jacket or tie in order to distinguish him from the groomsmen. After all, the bride shouldn't get all of the attention as she and her Prince Charming exchange vows.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:22PM PST on March 9, 2009
The Mane Event On your wedding, there are three words you do not want to hear - Bad Hair Day! How can you prevent a coif nightmare just when you want your hair to look the best? Preparation! After you purchase your wedding gown, you should have an idea of which way you want to wear your hair. Your hair style should compliment the style of your gown. And it has to work with the head piece and veil (if applicable) you've chosen. Look in magazines for hairstyles that appeal to you and start a file to show a stylist. Approximately six months before your wedding, consult with a hairstylist to figure out what you need to do now to get the hair you want for your wedding. That may mean growing a short style out, straightening, coloring or cutting. This is your last chance to make any drastic hair changes - anything you do now must be repairable by your wedding date if you don't like it. Three to four months before your wedding, pull out your "hairstyle file" and a Polaroid of your dress and head piece. Ask your hairstylist to start thinking about what styles he or she thinks would complement your gown, head piece and face shape - based on the preferences you've given. At this time, you should also set up all the appointments you'll need from that day until the wedding day. Don't forget to schedule an appointment for the rehearsal dinner day, if you'd like to have a special hairstyle for that occasion. About six weeks before your wedding, do a trial run of your wedding day hair, complete with your headpiece and veil. If you don't like what you see, your hairstylist will have plenty of time to go back to the drawing board to come up with a style that better suits you. While you have your hair done and headpiece and veil in place, it is a good time to do a test-run with your makeup as well. Either do it yourself or consult a makeup artist. Be careful not to get any of the cosmetics on your wedding day gear. Two weeks before your wedding get a final haircut or trim to clean up any dull, split ends you may have. Remind your groom to get a final trim as well. This is also an ideal time for a final trail run. Make sure your hair looks the way you always dreamed it would. You still have time to come up with something different if you're not happy. Don't settle for a hairstyle you don't love. One to two days before the wedding go in for your rehearsal hair appointment. If your wedding day hair is more formal, try something fun and trendy for the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. If your wedding hair is loose and romantic, try something sleek and modern. While your hair is being done, take time to go over all your wedding hair details to be certain you have everything organized and ready to go for your big day. On your wedding day, after eating a healthy breakfast, wash your hair and thoroughly dry it. You may even want to put your hair in hot rollers before you go in for your appointment to save some time (hot rollers should create body, not tight curls - consult with your stylist). Make sure to wear a low-collared robe or button-front shirt so you won't ruin your hair changing into your dress. Once you get to your salon, sit back in the chair and enjoy these few peaceful moments.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:20PM PST on March 9, 2009
Honeymoon on a Budget Weddings can be stressful -- especially on your checkbook. After budgeting for wedding expenses, there may not be as much money left for a honeymoon, as you would like. But just because you have a small honeymoon budget doesn't mean that it can't be a relaxing and memorable trip. A good travel agent can help you make the most of your funds so that you can have the honeymoon of your dreams at a price that won't cause you to have nightmares. Before you visit your travel agent, consider these wallet-friendly ideas: - Consider driving to a destination. Head to a cozy bed and breakfast. Catch the sights and sounds of - If you want to spend your honeymoon in - Hotels on the - Think about going to an all-inclusive resort, where you pay one fee up front that includes room, food, drinks and activities on resort property. That way, you'll know exactly how much you'll be spending. Your travel agent can provide all-inclusive options for numerous destinations. - Give yourself a daily budget (not including travel and hotel costs), and prioritize how to spend your funds. - Pack plenty of film, toothpaste, suntan lotion and reading materials. These items usually are more expensive at tourist destinations. - Register for your honeymoon with your travel agency, so friends and family can make contributions to your trip as their wedding gift. (Not available through all agencies.)
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:18PM PST on March 9, 2009
Plan a Honeymoon with Personal Style While you're in the thick of wedding planning - listening to dozens of bands, sifting through flower varieties, deciding whether to say the traditional words or write your own vows - you can hold on to one thought in the back of your mind. You're going to go on a honeymoon with your fiance that will be the vacation of a lifetime. To make your honeymoon memorable, start planning early. Find a Friend in Your Travel Agent: A travel agent can be a great help when it comes to planning your dream getaway. "Some travel agents even specialize in honeymoon planning. They take into account your wants and needs, and help you plan the romantic, relaxing honeymoon you have always wanted. Obviously, the Internet is a great source of travel information. But when it comes to putting those plans into action, such as booking plane tickets and making reservations, a travel agent can help make sure all the details are covered. A good place to starting looking for a travel agent that you like and trust is to gather references from family, friends. Ask them to recommend someone that they've worked with so that you can get an idea of an agent's personal style. Before visiting your travel agent, keep the following in mind: - What is your ideal dream getaway? Have you always envisioned going to - How long do you plan on being gone? If you work and can't be gone very long, you can still do a lot with well planned days. If you can take a longer vacation, there may be some destination options available to you that you hadn't considered. - What is your honeymoon budget? Your budget certainly has an effect on where you go and how long you'll be gone. When you plan your overall wedding budget, don't forget about your honeymoon. That way, you'll be able to see how it fits into your 'big picture' planning. - What do you like to do? Whether you want to spend your honeymoon sitting on the beach, skiing down a mountain or relaxing in a spa, there is a destination that can provide all the activities you desire. Desirable Destinations: Do you want adventure or relaxation? Theme-park fun or old-world charm? The following list of suggestions might contain a honeymoon destination that is just right for you. The Adventure Zone - Hiking, biking, swinging and surfing - these adventurous locales have it all: - - - In Cancun, you can tour Mayan ruins and bird sanctuaries, not to mention great beaches and Be a Pampered Pair: Almost any destination in the United States., as well as Some resorts offer packages tailored to couples. Some also have classes such as massage therapy and yoga so you can take the relaxation techniques home with you. Pick destinations that you're interested in, and ask your travel agent to help find the best spa resort in the area. You can be pampered from head to toe! Old-world Romance and Charm - If you're looking for romance, history and a lot of sightseeing - - - - - Feel Like a Kid Again: "A lot of couples go to Disneyworld in, A Little of Everything: Where is the one destination that offers a little bit of everything? The good-time capital of the Bungee jump at the top of the Stratosphere. Ride the roller coaster around the "skyscrapers" of Vegas also boasts fine dining -- almost every world-class chef has a restaurant somewhere on the strip. "Insure" Your Good Time: Every couple wants their dream getaway to go smoothly. But what happens when something goes wrong? It's a good idea to look into travel insurance to protect the investment you've made in your honeymoon. Unfortunately, it's impossible to predict accidents and acts of nature. There are resorts with hurricane and sunshine guarantees that give you the opportunity to come back to the hotel at a later date if the weather turns ugly. Different types of policies are also available to cover you while traveling. If you think you may need to interrupt your trip, ask your travel agent about the different types of travel insurance available. Even if you can't take your honeymoon at the time that you've planned it, you will still be able to enjoy it at a later date. Packing for Your travel agent can provide reports from the airlines and federal government on any luggage or carry-on restrictions. When packing your carry-on luggage, don't include items that could be considered dangerous, such as knives or scissors. If you do, you will be stopped by airport security and the items will be confiscated. These items, as well as golf clubs, should go with checked luggage. Of course, there is always the chance that the airline could misplace your luggage. To make sure you still can have a good time and function normally while your luggage is being located, pack the following items in your carry-on: - Important travel papers, such as tickets, hotel confirmations and rental car information. - A change of clothes (weather appropriate for your destination) and swimsuit (if appropriate). - A change of intimate items, such as underwear. - Any money or travelers checks. - Any forms of identification, including your driver's license, passport and/or social security card. - Personal items, including cosmetics, medication, and contacts (don't forget solution) or glasses. Your travel agent can provide a packing checklist that will help you remember important items.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:17PM PST on March 9, 2009
Dealing With Thank You Notes So many gifts, so little time, so many thank you notes! The guests who were invited to your wedding have graciously bestowed upon you gifts to celebrate you new lives together. Now it's time to say, "Thanks!" A thank you note must be sent to everyone who gives you a gift. This not only expresses your gratitude, but also lets the giver know that you received the gift. However, more than any other wedding task you've completed, this may be the most daunting. Here are a few tips to help you properly send thank you notes: - Save the guest list. When the gifts start arriving, write a description of the gift next to the giver's name. That way, you'll have not only the address, but also the gift given in one place. - Thank you notes should be sent in a timely fashion. - Notes for gifts received before the wedding should be sent within two weeks of the gift's arrival. - Notes for gifts received on the wedding should be sent within one month of your return from the honeymoon. - Notes for gifts received after the wedding (guests have up to one year from your wedding date to send you a gift) should be sent within two weeks of the gift's arrival. - Make your thank you notes personal. - Always personalize the note by naming the gift and describing what you plan to do with it. - If you received money or a check, mention how you plan to use it. - If you received a gift from a group of people, send one thank you note per household to each contributor. - Take it one note at a time. - Try to start writing thank you notes as soon as gifts start arriving. - Don't try to get every note finished in one sitting. The notes won't be as personal and you'll get overwhelmed quickly. - Enlist some help. Since your spouse also benefits from the gifts, it's only fair that he should share in the thank you note responsibilities. - Place a check mark next to the guest's name when his and/or her thank you note has been sent off. That way, you won't send doubles. - Remember, this is a happy task. Saying, "thank you" for a gift shows your appreciation and you affection for the giver.
Posted by: Bridal Admin at 1:13PM PST on March 9, 2009
Changing Your Name After the marriage takes place, a bride can choose to legally take her husband's surname as her own. It can be overwhelming to look at all of the places you'll need to make this change, so follow a step-by-step process. Don't forget to follow the same process when it comes to changing your address: - Get a copy of a certified marriage certificate with a raised seal that verifies its authenticity. Simply call the office where you acquired the marriage certificate if they don't automatically send you copies. - Contact the office of Social Security at 1-800-772-1213. You will be able to use an automated system to take you through the name change. Your new card will be free. Beware scam services that offer to send you a new card for a fee. Do not provide these scam artists with any of your information. Report any contacts made to you to the Social Security office. Visit the Department of Motor Vehicles (DMV). They must see you in-person. Bring along your certified marriage certificate and the following forms of identification (not all may be necessary): - Social Security card (old and new, if you've already acquired the new one) - Old driver's license with previous surname - Car registration - Voter registration - Passport Once your Social Security card and driver's license have been changed, you'll be able to change your name on the following documents: - Passport (change this after, not before, the honeymoon for smoother travel plans) - Mortgages/leases - Insurance policies Don't forget to notify the following of your name change: - Family and friends - Employers and payroll departments - - The phone company and other utilities - Banks and financial institutions - Credit card companies - Registrar of voters - Schools and/or alumni associates |
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